[求助] 女朋友不準我喝酒
一直以來女朋友都還蠻討厭喝酒這件事情的
因為她的父親從小有酗酒的習慣
在很久之前她是沒有禁止我的
之前有一次講到這個議題時
她就有跟我提到她不喜歡人家喝酒
而且酒駕很危險
還有她是念法律系的,她知道判刑很重很可怕
所以後來有幾次跟同學約出去喝酒時我都會保證不會騎車
而之前又講到這個問題的時候,她就直接明白的告訴我我不准喝酒
我當下也直接的答應她以後不會喝了,因為我其實自己沒有很愛喝 (是真的!)
大部分都是同學找才喝幾口,或是去燒烤店的時候才小酌一兩杯
而自從答應他不喝酒之後我就真的滴酒不沾
朋友約我我都會直接說 "好啊我陪你們去,但我不喝喔!"
不然就是直接回絕,
朋友也知道我女朋友會禁止,所以其實也不會硬逼我要喝
但是直到前幾天,博士班的學長跟我說教師節那天有一個活動
畢業學長們都會回來,到時候要一一敬酒
我當下就想到跟女朋友的這個約定,所以也沒有直接答應學長
回家後我就跟女朋友提起這件事情
我跟他說,那些學長很重要,以後業界會常常遇到,
我不想讓他們覺得我很不禮貌之類的
然後跟她說我當天會搭計程車來回,不用擔心,我不會酒駕
可是她當下很生氣,說我怎麼可以為了學長這種奇怪的習俗
就打破了我跟她的承諾
我有跟她解釋說,平常的約我都不會答應
是因為這次感受到學長的壓力才會提出來跟她討論
並且我還是以她的意見為主,她如果不答應我當然不會去
我的問題是,我現在已經答應她我不會跟學長去喝酒了
可是她還是很生氣為什麼我當初有這個動機
她的意思是我當初根本不該開口問她,應該毫不考慮的回絕
各位版友的看法呢
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