[求助] 對未來感到極大的壓力
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我22y 女友大我一歲,是一個我非常喜歡也很想娶回家的人
最近因為發生了一些事而讓我感到壓力極大,不知所措,所以希望各位大大給小弟一些意見。
我家家境算是小康而女友家裡不算過得太好,所以很多需要用到錢的事都是由家裡出手幫忙的包括出國玩女友學費之類的。
而最近女友家發生了巨變,需要用到一筆不算少的錢,我也因此有看到她的一些親人,從我從旁觀察女友家人都是一些不負責任的人,說到出錢都跑得飛快,都沒有責任心。
而我媽也是有觀察到,他語重心長跟我說,如果要娶她要想清楚因為有可能你是把全家族的人都娶下來,而且女友也沒什麼金錢觀,不會儲蓄,對錢很沒有概念,跟她談她也是馬上轉移話題。
說到這我就很害怕,我大學都還沒唸完,其實對未來也還是有點徬徨,我有什麼本事可以保證我會多有成就呢。
雖然說我目前的工作都讓我每個月大概有150k-300k的收入,但我這工作也不是有辦法多長久的工作,也許有天還會虧本,我的存款現在也只有大概150w左右,沒房沒車,離衣食無虞還有很大段差距。
我該怎麼辦,我很愛她,也知道這些都不是他願意的,但一想到未來可能會被錢壓得喘不過氣,而且不是甘願花在自己所關心的事情上,我就感到倍感壓力。
分開的念頭最近一直跑出來,但想到就此一走了之,我覺得我自己好不負責任,也很自私,我該怎麼辦,這有解嗎?
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