Re: [求助] 可能會因為不想跟婆婆同住而分手?
※ 引述《carolinecsz (Caroline)》之銘言:
: 個人一點淺見:
: 1.『不試試看怎麼知道』
: 請問要怎麼試?先住過去幾天嗎?
: 君不見非常多的公公婆婆,婚前好慈祥,婚後公婆的架子都全出來了。
: 這些又要怎麼『試』呢?人和人之間本來就應該要保持一個有禮貌的距離,
: 雖然男女雙方是結了婚,不要忘了和對方的家長仍然不熟。
: 難道因為法律上變成了一家人,情感上也可以接關!?
: 一結了婚媳婦的技能馬上點滿 ??
唉...
我知道提出"不試試看怎麼知道"一定會被鑽牛角尖
離題到十萬八千里後還有沒有人記得原文的線索?
1.認識三個月
2.對對方長輩印象只有見過面 感覺尚可
是故
既然擔心無法相處怎麼不試著多了解一些確認有沒有問題?
因為原文對相處印象只有同室看個報紙點個頭之類的接觸
當然 是建立在還想為感情努力的前提之下
延伸到啥 人與人就是該保持個距離
婚前婚後絕對不一樣啦
這已經是另一個二元對立的問題 而非原來的個案
當然 如果真有人認為 公婆必惡論
我想該另開一個話題才對 也順便論一下岳丈岳母好了
君不見... 君不見反過頭來問也是一樣的道理
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