[求助] 該如何拒絕較適當?
想請教各位,過年時和朋友參加聯誼認識了其中一位男生,當下聊天覺得還好
所以就留了電話,上個月他邀我一起去看花展,一開始覺得認識新朋友也不錯
這中間也只有用簡訊互相聯絡較頻繁點,對方似乎不愛用fb聊天
但後續一起看過依次電影後,在聊天相處的過程裡,我覺得彼此只能做朋友
所以就想說之後他的邀約就回絕了,想說這樣他應該會知道我的意思
但是,沒想到,上個月開始,對方變成幾乎每天簡訊問候,不是注意天氣就是問我在幹嘛XD
因為幾乎天天都這樣,一開始我想說兩三天回覆他一下,就是基本的的禮貌回覆
但是,他到禮拜四或五就會問我週六要不要出門,要不要看電影??
我前幾週週末都有事剛好可以拿來回絕,但是對方似乎沒有放棄的意思,
這真的讓我感到苦惱了...,難道他真的不了解我的想法嘛?
因為對方其實還蠻有禮貌的的,我們也都是在工作的成年人了,實在不想把話說的太直
而且,感覺對方是個太單純的男性??,
因為我們出去只出去過兩次(看花展,看電影&吃飯)單純逛街聊天,沒有任何碰觸
他後來傳簡訊跟我說
他已經把認識我的事跟家裡的親戚們說了,還說親戚要我下次去他們家玩
這真是讓我更頭大,我們只能算是剛認識的朋友吧,他這樣讓我覺得有點過頭了
而後續的簡訊大發送,還有每週末的邀約,真的讓我覺得要想個方式結束或是讓他明白
所以想請問版上各位的建議,該怎麼說明才好,我目前是不接他電話一段時間了
所以簡訊變成他幾乎每天必傳的工作,但是一直找理由回絕他,真的好辛苦阿...
希望各位可以給我一件建議和方法,感謝大家!!
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