[討論] 同時的愛和喜歡
和男友已經交往多年了,在去年底卻發現他對他班上的某女有好感
還和朋友們開了個社團討論每天聊天/追求的進度
剛發現的當下天崩地裂
但在和男友談過後,還是決定和他繼續在一起
於是仍舊維持著交往關係,也會一起出遊、約會等等
但是其實到目前為止都清楚他們斷斷續續有在聯絡
畢竟是同班同學,目前又是快要畢業的季節
可以理解同學間關於畢業、課業上的互動
但是令我比較難過的是
男友在和她的言談間較熱絡,相對之下雖然對我有問必答
但是和她談話之間透露出的愉悅著實讓我感受到了
另外就是除了必要性的聯絡外
男友甚至在某個深夜主動和她聊天,那晚的我就待在他的身邊……
事情的爆發是在前幾天
因為又看到男友和她的對話,所以心血來潮地問了八股梗:
「你喜歡我嗎?」
「喜歡啊。」
「那你還喜歡她嗎?」
「……可能還有點感覺吧。」
在聽到的當下還滿揪心的,但是開心的是比起發現他喜歡上別人的當下
我的疼痛程度已經少多了
一方面覺得他的坦承是好事,另一方面卻又忿忿不平
我因為還愛你所以在事發之後仍繼續和你走下去
曾經詢問過是否可以和她切斷關係,你以只是朋友有何必要的理由拒絕了
為什麼還要在我身邊時放任自己喜歡她?
難道一顆心可以容納兩個人以上是正常的嗎?
請各位幫我解惑,拜託了。
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