Re: [求助] 是誰的錯?
※ 引述《jy0417 (累)》之銘言:
: 這個id之前是我幫他申請的
: 所以我有密碼,算是我們共用的帳號吧
: 文章是他自己po的,我剛只是登入看看他又沒有看大家的回文
: 這樣而已
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我女生 但基本上這件事我是比較站在男生這方的
我很確定我也有這種來往這麼多年的異性朋友
而當他們若有困難我絕對也能二話不說的盡我最大能力幫他們
不是不顧慮另一半感受
而是我認真的珍惜這樣子的友情
不過其實這整串看下來
我想說的是
我覺得啦.....
你們兩位的癥結點就在於你們根本已經不愛對方了吧
而這件事只不過恰巧是引爆點而已
或許女方平常任性
但男生也一直隱忍裝作自己可以接受可以不計較
想請問你們溝通過嗎?
或許有也或許沒有
可是惡性依舊循環 沒有結論
不然如果兩位今天感情好互相尊重信任
那我想今天的局面會變成:
1.
女方或許可以稍稍體諒學妹的難處
而不會直接這樣強硬的拒絕男生協助學妹
甚至
我腦補好一點的狀況或許是女方也會跟著男生一起想辦法幫忙
2.
至於男方
大概一開始也會在乎到女方的情緒
會先跟女方商量這件事該怎麼辦
而不是直接搞先斬後奏這招
所以簡單說....
你們之間的相處應該早就出現很多問題了吧....
所以是不是該解決的是你們之間的問題而不是一直牽扯到學妹身上呢....?
多拉了一個人進來也只是更複雜而已....
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