Re: [求助] 女友說她想嫁了
※ 引述《nighthero (GO!GO!GO!)》之銘言:
: 跟女友交往兩年了,我們兩個同年紀明年滿30歲
: 工作上兩個也都算穩定
: 最近她一直囔囔她同學很多都結婚了,她說她也想嫁了......
: 我自己的想法是跟她結婚沒問題
: 我們也都彼此認定對方
: 但我就是找不到一個強而有力的點
: 說服自己做好結婚的心理準備
: 請問我該怎麼辦,好煩啊!
回復一下大家的疑問吧。
1、我想跟她結婚,我也認定非她不娶,不娶她我自己也會覺得後悔。
但還不想結婚的點在於,自己退伍工作也才兩年多(有念研究所)
總覺得現在心智也還沒成熟到可以面對婚姻,扛起整個家庭責任
說穿了就是我自私好了
過去的人生就是不斷的求學,好不容易求學告一斷落
當兵又悶了一年
現在好不容易工作後有錢,有閒,休假又女友陪伴
我真的很享受現在的生活,有點不想改變現在的生活罷了
但自己也覺得一直這種生活也不是長久之計,而且也對不起女生
所以我才想至少明年底或後年上半年才結婚
結論:其實我們對於結婚的共識就卡在那一年半的時間,
而這差別在女方覺得30歲後結婚太老了。
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