Re: [心情] 這種家庭嫁不得???
非常能體會這種公務員對其他職業的歧視
因為家母也是這樣 冏
我媽是老師
兄弟姊妹老師的比例也很高
大家學歷都不錯
若不是在公家機關上班,就是在國營企業如中鋼台電中油
所以對於私人企業
總是有種看不起的感覺,不知道外面的公司可以開多久
總是一天到晚念說不穩定
我到現在已經工作10年餘,大概前八年
媽媽三不五時就會鼓勵我考公務員,叫我找個正經的工作
但其實...
我覺得公務員薪水好像不是很夠花耶,我不想啊~~~~~
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與其嫁進原PO男友家的小康家庭
我覺得相比之下嫁到這種公務員比例很高的家庭才苦
如果你是個公務員或是國營企業員工當然沒差
如果不是,每次遇到過年
親戚間的火力展示跟碎嘴真的是非常恐怖
我的舅媽是個護士還是醫生的女兒
當年嫁給舅舅的時候,舅舅是銀行經理
果然進門沒多久
就可以常常聽到母親姊妹們對她諸多抱怨
而且大多就是說門當戶不對之類的無稽之談
一直到大概婚後五六年,舅舅覺得錢賺夠了便把工作辭掉
結果小孩出生之後發現錢花很快,不夠用
想再出去找工作,又不願屈就銀行小職員的職位(畢竟以前是經理啊,坐在後面的哩)
就這樣...待業至今已經十幾年
但他很願意打理家務,把小孩的功課照顧的很好
現在他門家是女主外男主內
我媽及阿姨等人才終於改口
說好險遇到小舅媽不離不棄
護士薪水不錯,才能讓這個家庭完整的走過來
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給原PO的建議是:
如果妳已經把男友視為共度一生的對象
就是拖下去就對了
等到年紀超過爸媽設定的適婚年齡標準線
他們就會試著接受妳的選擇
因為我就是這樣拖
我爸媽便雙手一攤投降,在我31歲那年
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