[心情] 男友的父親很大男人主義
今年跟男友回馬来西亞過年(男友是馬来西亞僑生),
他父親有幾個點讓我很受不了,很大男人主義
這邊條列幾個例子請板友建議我說怎麼做,
第一、我從台灣買了2500元的烏魚子伴手禮,
因為他們比較不知道如何料理,他們在除夕夜吃團圓飯時,
我自己將烏魚子先用酒醃,再煎好配青蒜和白蘿蔔給他們吃,
結果他父親吃了跟我說”這烏魚子不好吃又貴,你切的蘿蔔太粗了”
一會又說”妳夹筷子的姿勢不對,手指不能交叉”
然後又開始嫌我男友的二馊煮的哪道菜難吃,哪道菜不夠酸
(因為他們全家在我男友的二哥家過年,所以年菜是他二嫂煮的)
其實當下我覺得快發火了,因為我覺得他父親很不尊重別人
沒說一句謝謝還一直被唸,最後受不了去廁所哭了一下再回來Q_Q
第二、到他家時他父親在唸風扇要關掉,我趕快去拉風扇的開關,
結果他父親大吼”笨蛋不要拉我風扇,開關在另一個方向”
整個被骂的莫名其妙
第三、他父親買榴槤回來給我們吃,切完後說”xx(我的名字),快去拿拖把來拖”
因為我不知道拖把放哪,問了一下馬上又被唸
諸如此類還有一堆大大小小的事,總知只要任何一個步驟不順他父親的意,馬上就被罵
大家一定會問為什麼我男友都不幫我說話
因為我男友跟我說他父親個性就是這樣,
越頂嘴他爸跟生氣,不如不要頂嘴
我跟他說可是這樣被罵心情很差,我男友就說可是就是妳做錯,
他才會罵妳 = =
他爸整個超大男人主義,我看我男友的大嫂和二嫂一直被他父親罵,
好像媳婦不是人一樣
我男友還跟我說如果嫁去他們家,就算定居在新加坡
至少一個禮拜要回他家一次
有女生有辦法忍受這種家庭嗎?
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