[求助] 爸媽極度不喜歡女友
稍微簡介一下,因為是家中獨子(三個姊,我最小)
父母對我的期待很高,我一直以來也都還算很聽話
雖不敢說多優秀,但是至少爸媽還算以我為榮
一年前,我把交往近兩年的女友帶回家給爸媽看
沒想到我爸媽完全不喜歡我女友,甚至只要我說要跟他出去就會生氣
他們不喜歡他的理由不外乎 我女友屬於偏嬌小154 未來工作似乎比較不穩定(與我相比而
言)
基於優生學以及未來結婚考量 所以堅決反對交往
不過,我完全不敢告訴我女友這些事情,畢竟這些都是很傷人的...
而另外一方面,他們家卻是跟我家完全相反 對於我非常熱情 甚至有種非我不嫁的fu
每次只要去他們家我就會充滿了壓力....
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其實我夾在中間的生活很痛苦 一方面我又不想得罪我爸媽 也不想傷害女友
這段日子我也想了折衷方式,希望女友可以上進一點 或許有個不錯工作,我爸媽就能接
受。
但是,偏偏我女友又是安逸型 不懂我的暗喻 ...
好幾次我都因為叫他要努力一點而吵架 另一方面 也因為他跟我爸媽吵架
搞得我表裡不是人
---結論
其實我知道爸媽的擔心,但是要我這麼勢利眼 真的是很痛苦
如果是大家的話 該如何在兩者間作出最好的處理呢?
以上,感謝大家
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