[懷孕] 要怎麼調適心情消失
現在懷孕31w,
先生是獨子,上面有五個姐姐,公婆非常重男輕女。結婚前就開始催生,還說有生男秘方
要我試,結婚後一年多沒消息就開始要我們去做試管,做一個男寶寶出來。
為了維持皇城內的和氣,及不想讓先生難做人,這些我都忍住不嗆回去,但是心裡一直很
難受,還曾看過心理醫生吃過一陣子的藥
結婚四年後來好不容易自然懷孕了,前期因為終於懷孕鬆一口氣,加上先生開始會幫忙變
得比較有責任感,所以心情上都滿輕鬆愉快的
高層次後確定寶寶性別是男寶,先生馬上很興奮的跟公婆報告,但是我卻憂喜參半...
我自己是男女寶都不在乎,只希望寶寶健康出生就好,醫生宣布是男寶的時候我也很高興
,但是就開始有種不甘心的感覺,
覺得公婆一直以來都要什麼有什麼,不順他們的意就發脾氣。現在又如了他們的願得到孫
子,這種不甘心的心情一直填滿我...隨著週數越來越大,感覺也越來越強烈。
我知道這樣很不好,很怕心情會影響到寶寶,先生也安慰我說生活是我們在過,不要理他
們,但是我只覺得是安慰話而已,現實不會這麼簡單...
雖然沒有跟公婆同住,但是每週都得回去吃飯。現在我都不知道該怎麼面對他們...因為
這種不甘心,我已經沒辦法再對他們陪笑
我覺得我這樣很誇張,但是我真的不知道該怎麼調適我自己...
看前面文章,也有不少人跟我一樣有不甘心的感覺,想請問大家都是怎麼調適自己的呢?
我現在是一直跟自己說,心情會影響寶寶,所以要開心點,但是覺得快要沒作用了,但是
又不能不回去...Orz
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