[寶寶] 2歲小孩不要隨便被別人碰頭
女兒2歲白天給外公外婆帶晚上接回
我爸媽算是很會吸收新知識的爺奶了,但最近我跟我爸爸有不一樣的意見想上來請益大家
的看法
我知道很多爸媽都很討厭別人沒經過家長同意就隨便亂碰孩子
基本上我也是
但前幾天遇到一個約一歲10個月的小女孩,兩個人互看打招呼,對方小孩伸手輕輕拉掉我
女兒的髮夾
對方父母有阻止她
我也是輕輕笑著說:沒關係,小孩子玩~
但外公在旁邊就一直欲言又止的樣子,
,等到離開現場,外公就把我女兒抱起來說:阿公不是有教過你說如果有陌生人要亂碰你
的頭,你要舉手揮開嗎??
我聽了覺得不太妥適,雖然是為她好,但我覺得對方只是一歲多的小孩,沒必要敵意成這
樣,我跟外公說不需要做到這樣吧,可是外公認為頭就是不應該隨便給陌生人碰。
我今天帶我女兒去超商,突然有小學一二年級的小姐姐經過,很順手就摸了我女兒的頭頂
,我也只是笑一下的說姐姐你好。
我知道有些老人家很愛未經同意就摸小孩,我也覺得這樣不妥適,也會保護盡量避開,當
我孩子還是小嬰兒時,我也不想要別的小孩拉他的手,也怕會傳染之類的,這些我都懂,
可是慢慢長大後,面對小孩子的觸碰
除非小朋友有生病,我們要盡量保護避開,有時候善意的觸碰,有需要教孩子馬上撥開嗎
?!總覺得這樣對兩邊孩子都不太好,好像太有攻擊性了,大家覺得呢???
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