朋友的小孩脾氣不好...
看板BabyMother作者eternalsun (永恆陽光)時間6年前 (2017/09/13 00:21)推噓107(145推 38噓 545→)留言728則, 112人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
我一直都有個困擾
覺得朋友的三歲小孩對大人不太有禮貌
但是我不知道是不是他有一套教養理論
是不是這個年齡不適合管教他這些
我沒有小孩所以不知道怎麼教小孩
當他兒子對我不禮貌的時候
他都沒有嚴厲制止
讓我覺得有點不太開心
今天跟朋友和她和她兒子逛超市
我們一起推一部購物推車 小朋友坐在推車裡
朋友是主要在推車的人
接著我靠近要幫著朋友一起推車
小朋友就企圖把我手掰開
他說 他不要我推車
我當下也沒放手
跟他說 “可是這不是你的車呀 為什麼我不能推?”
“你這樣扳我的手 我會痛耶”
朋友看到沒有阻止小孩,只是說 “姨姨好幼稚”
然後跟我說 “小孩有時候就是有他的點 很奇怪”
然後在輕描淡寫地跟小孩說 “你要他放手他你要好好說啊”
結果小孩非但沒有好好說,還繼續捏我的手並且開始哭叫。
我湊到小孩旁邊說 “你這樣捏我手我會痛 如果是我捏你你不會痛嗎?”
然後小孩就抓狂打了一下我的臉
到此為止 媽媽從頭到尾都沒有嚴厲阻止小孩行為
還有一些小事件
例如小孩要求某東西 媽媽幫忙拿給他 不會要求他說謝謝
小孩在公共場合大聲叫 媽媽不會說 小聲一點 會吵到人
要是這不是我朋友
我只會覺得這個小孩很沒教養 很沒有禮貌 不懂得尊重他人
但因為是朋友 讓我有點困擾
我主要不是在批評家長的管教方式
但是實在是身為小孩身邊的大人 我有點無法忍受這種小孩 會很火大
我該跟朋友反應我的不開心嗎?
還是說朋友這樣的教導方式有他的道理?
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