[月子] 習俗-坐月子是娘家媽媽的責任?
問過幾個朋友,大家的狀況不同,好像跟習俗無關,但我媽卻很堅持,以致於造成我自己
一些困擾。
我媽總是說坐月子是她這個娘家媽媽的責任。
從我懷第一個寶寶,我覺得不想麻煩公婆或我媽,影響他們的作息,決定去月子中心。(
婚後是跟老公自己住外面,沒有跟公婆和娘家住一起)
然後我媽就包了六萬的紅包給我坐月子。第一胎傻傻,收下後告知老公,以致於後來衍生
月中的錢我們夫妻協調時,老公說我媽的六萬繳完,我可拿生育補助津貼去繳餘款,讓我
很不爽,為什麼生小孩都變成我自己的事?
第二胎,老公看我真的很辛苦,我們協議各付一半月中的錢。我媽因為這幾年家族變化,
經濟上比較差,所以說要包三萬六,叫我自己補兩萬四進紅包(我覺得一整個怪,為什麼
還有自己添錢的道理?為哪樁?)所以我告訴她,我明白她的難處,她想包多少都沒關係
,那只是她的心意,我已經和老公協議一人一半,沒包也沒關係哦。
她揪結了幾個月,最後我也沒再fallow她的想法。
沒想到,我現在在月中,我媽仍堅持,我要告訴我老公,她有包紅包給我,她會包六萬給
我。(她也確實會包這樣)然後我一樣告訴她,不方便不用,我們夫妻一人一半很ok,結
果她很堅持那是習俗,是禮數,還說我老公一定知道這個習俗。
有板友知道到底這習俗是怎麼回事嗎?
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