Re: [寶寶] 教養的堅持,錯了嗎?消失
想借標題問一下,媽媽該怎麼回應跟長輩的教養衝突呢?
我家兒子快3歲
平常給我媽帶
我媽也是會買養樂多、布丁、脆笛酥之類的零食給他吃
一天只能挑一種吃
我唯一的底線就是不要影響到正餐
但每次回婆家
他們家帶小孩都蠻隨性的
零食、糖果養樂多都一大包一大排在買
那邊的小孩也都這樣吃
通常我回去婆家會睜隻眼閉隻眼
但有一次
我兒子一整天下來已經喝了3瓶養樂多+很多餅乾
晚上吃完晚餐又想喝
我說:不行喔!今天喝很多了
我兒都已經要拿回去放了
某個長輩跳出來說:沒關係!你喝!養樂多有什麼關係
我當時弱弱的說:他要睡了不能喝,拿回去放吧!
老公當時不在場
我說完全場安靜...覺得很尷尬
請問這時媽媽該怎麼拒絕比較好呢?
還有想問大家會給3歲小孩吃烤生蠔嗎?
婆家這禮拜烤肉
老公另外弄了一盤海鮮燉飯給兒子吃
後來他們烤起生蠔
我婆婆竟然要喂我兒子吃=.=
我馬上拒絕
我說小孩吃那個不好吧!是生的!
他們說有烤熟呀??為什麼不能吃
我弱弱的回一句:不行啦他現在不能吃
我老公也說對啊!他不能吃
然後又沈默....尷尬
後來過一陣子
我婆婆又問我兒子:你怎麼都不吃坷呢?
我假裝沒聽到
大姑回:人家就不能吃了你還問
我婆婆傻笑說:對吼忘記了.....
大姑的小孩都大班~小學了
3個都吃烤生蠔吃的很開心@@
但我真的覺得烤生蠔不適合給小孩吃呀....
好想知道該如何有智慧的回應這類的衝突><
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