[請益] 該請育嬰假嗎?
唉,真的很煩惱,麻煩大家給我建議
(文長)
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寶寶目前5M19d,第一胎,
我休完兩個月產假就開始上班了
白天送托嬰,晚上自己顧,算偽單親無後援
之前堅持不請育嬰假是因為坐月子時覺得與世隔絕
非常不喜歡(我住月中已經算很舒服了)
想要與人互動,整天關在房裏滑手機覺得超悶
再來是先生常常嫌棄我花太多錢在寶寶身上
(寶寶2M時睡不好我買了love to dream,
他聽到一條包巾1200嚇歪,碎唸也太貴了吧
事實上寶寶穿上後好睡很多,
他晚上沒跟寶寶睡不理解,只一直嫌太貴)
導致後來有些高單價的物品我就自掏腰包買,
覺得老娘有賺錢,買東西給小孩不想看人臉色
最近先生工作升遷,越來越晚下班,
以前還可以幫忙買晚餐,或幫忙洗奶瓶之類的
現在常常回家我和寶寶都已經睡了。
所以我常常回家後開始忙:
幫寶寶洗澡、做副食品餵食(做冰磚帶去托嬰)、冷凍母奶(白天擠的,也是要帶去托嬰
)、洗衣服晾衣服收衣服折衣服、陪寶寶玩、餵奶哄寶寶睡,
忙完差不多也該睡了,隔天大約五點半要起床餵奶
(半夜大約1~2次夜奶)
昨天因為寶寶只要我離開視線就大哭,
哭到發抖我很捨不得,又不肯塞進揹巾(太熱)
我只好一手抱著另一手做完上述的工作。
等寶寶睡了以後我哭著打電話給先生,跟他說
「我已經好久沒有吃晚餐了,
每天晚上忙完寶寶的事情就要睡了,
你可不可以不要每天都工作到這麼晚才回家?
偶爾可以早點回家幫忙我嗎?」
他有點被嚇到,問我要不要請育嬰假,
說他會付和現在等值的薪水給我,
問我要不要先休息一下?
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請完育嬰假寶寶差不多也快一歲了
到時候情況會比較改善嗎?
還是開始工作後又恢復現在的生活
(然後我就一輩子無法工作這樣?)
我好不想請育嬰假(好怕拿人錢要看人臉色)
可是又好想休息一下,真的好累,沒有自己的時間
到底,我應該請育嬰假嗎???
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還有 70 則推文
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我被等值薪水誘惑了
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※ 編輯: mildstar903 (114.136.149.59), 08/17/2017 10:34:20
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