[寶寶] 小孩容易崩潰,媽媽也是。
剛剛我真的是心裡崩潰了阿~~~~
今天跟先生出門,託公婆幫忙看顧小孩,
一回來是晚上六點半左右,問了一下小朋友今天的狀況,
了解他今天中午不太吃,只吃了半碗稀飯,
然後剛才吃了點饅頭(我婆婆自己做的),
然後我就說不然晚餐我幫他煮麵吃好了, 怕他等下吃不下晚餐,
先不要給他吃饅頭了。
(一邊也說了每次在餐前餵他吃點心,正餐會吃不下的觀念)
在前置作業前,婆婆跑來問我:饅頭應該跟麵一樣不都是主食嗎?
我腦袋當下卡住了,可能我自己不會把饅頭當晚餐,
我就跑去問我兒子(一歲八個月左右),還是媽媽就不幫你煮了,
然後我公公說:還是幫他煮啦,看他想吃什麼。
於是乎我還是準備著前置作業,在煮滾水時,
發現我兒子嘴巴再咬東西,我就問他:你在吃什麼?
後來我婆婆說:剛餵他吃核桃,於是我又再問了一次,
你還吃得下嗎?還是媽媽不幫你煮了。
然後我婆婆就說:還是幫他煮啦 煮一點就好。
於是我就煮了份量少的一點白湯麵+高麗菜+牛肉+蛋。
後來煮完,我兒子吃了兩口,力馬就被旁邊爸爸吸引,
不想吃了,然後我就有點崩潰說:好,你不吃就下來餐椅吧!
然後就不想管了的上樓了,只是內心覺得很煩,很無力,
覺得過程中心理一直覺得兒子應該是不會吃,
但還是煮了,覺得有種驗證式的走向自己想像的狀況,
然後還把自己心情弄得很糟,覺得蠢斃了,
又對教養這件事,無法干預環境中的很多事情很無力。
除了餐前吃一些有的沒的之外,還有讓我兒子在餐前看電視這點也是,
對我來說,要把孩子從電視機前面吸引過來,好好坐到餐椅吃飯是很累的事。
媽媽能做的很多,
但其實很多時候也是很有限的,
小孩容易崩潰,媽媽也是會崩潰的阿~~~
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偶爾是不會怎樣,但講了很多次,還是如此,就會有不爽的感覺啦~更何況我兒還是體重3%邊緣的孩子。
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話說我CARE的不是我辛苦做了小孩不吃,而是在明明就才剛說完,
為何又餵食,覺得剛剛的溝通好像是??。
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晚餐時已經是自己帶小孩了。
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