[寶寶] 愛吃醋的媽媽
潛水很久了,但終於忍不住來聊聊心情...
兒子現在一歲,我們沒有跟婆婆同住,但每個週末都會帶兒子回去和婆婆吃飯。(一星期
相處不超過4小時)
我白天上班,兒子白天托嬰,下班接回自己顧。
兒子出生後我就不太喜歡婆婆抱兒子,可能羨慕婆婆很會跟兒子玩,也都hold得住他
前幾天婆婆剛好要來住我們家一晚,下午就請婆婆提早來帶小孩,我們夫妻出門晃晃。
平常假日兒子睡午覺時,如果放他在床上,他就開始爬來爬去,就是不睡,我和隊友一人
要推他出去走才肯睡,結果我婆婆那天來,竟然拍拍就乖乖在床上躺平...
我們回來時看他們祖孫倆玩得愉快,兒子看到奶奶在哪就爬向哪(我坐在另外一邊都毫無
吸引力),而且玩一玩不停對奶奶微笑,都不理我這個媽了...(泣)
那天隊友幫兒子洗澡,一開始在那邊哀嚎哭泣,結果奶奶一進浴室就開始笑,心情好。但
昨天一樣場景,我進去他哭更慘......
有時候覺得吃婆婆的醋好沒意義,但就是會在內心很糾結,很想吃醋...有媽媽也是這樣
嗎?要怎麼調適自己的想法啊?
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※ 編輯: esther0717 (223.140.54.142), 05/02/2017 16:36:00
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※ 編輯: esther0717 (223.140.54.142), 05/02/2017 16:40:52
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只有下班時間短暫時間(兒子8點睡覺)和假日可以陪伴兒子,就也不會想過自己的生活
或把小孩托給他人顧
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我老公之前也是這樣跟我說
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我兒子這樣對我我會覺得有點挫折感,好像婆婆很會帶小孩
※ 編輯: esther0717 (223.137.58.26), 05/02/2017 17:49:53
※ 編輯: esther0717 (223.137.58.26), 05/02/2017 17:55:28
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我也很用心在陪伴我兒子,陪他玩。只是有些特質是不容易學的。像是我婆婆動作誇張、
聲調高昂、多變化,穿著豔麗,都會比較吸引小孩。
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或許自己覺得陪兒子的時間都不夠,就不會想把和兒子相處的時間切給其他人
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