Re: [寶寶] 老婆好像在懲罰寶寶?
各位好,是這樣的
今天中午回到家,一進客廳就聽到寶寶在房間啜泣的聲音(8M女寶)
本來想著去安慰她,怎麼啦~幹嘛哭哭呢
結果一進房間,映入眼簾的是:
先生用電腦上網玩線上遊戲,坐在她後方的餐椅內的寶寶在哭,滿臉+整身都沾了副食品,連頭
髮都有,地上有打翻的碗&餐具
那一瞬間,我的心全揪在一起,眼眶快有淚了
我問先生,怎麼不幫女兒清理一下
先生回我:『她自己打翻的,等下再給她洗澡』
我說你看她這樣+在哭,都沒感覺嗎!
然後我抱著女兒到浴室洗澡清理,副食品卡在臉上不知道多久了,都乾掉要用摳的...
還好女兒洗澡有玩具心情就好了,不然我應該淚水會滴下來
老實說,我知道一定是寶寶不乖乖吃飯,才會惹爸爸生氣
但那畫面對我有衝擊,我沒辦法想像為何可以這樣對待自己的孩子
不知道我先生是故意在懲罰小朋友嗎?
我很想罵人,但我又不知道該不該發飆
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同理心
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換成保母也是可以~
請各位媽媽要體諒保母顧小孩顧到起拋, 在安靜冷卻,
放妳家小孩滿身都是副食品自己在椅子上哭唷, 保母也是人,也會有情緒喔~
請各位媽媽要有同理心,不要過度本位主義
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不會耶 我覺得全職爸爸會更慘耶....
鄉民: 廢物耶, 讓老婆出去賺錢, 在家顧小孩還放小孩全身髒自己哭
這種男人妳敢嫁喔 塊陶阿
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收錢又怎樣? 不能職業倦怠? 不能有情緒? 收錢就不能被當人嗎?
原文是自己女兒耶 看到女兒在旁邊自己哭...這樣不會覺得比保母更殘忍嗎?
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了解~ 不過還是要測一下風向
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