Re: [新聞] 親子溝通?情緒勒索? 母po女童抽噎
本身沒有關注鰻魚媽,
因為這兩天沸沸揚揚的討論和討論串下,
突然對自身教育感到衝突。
例如
1. 威脅
孩子子不收玩具,或玩具亂丟
我會跟孩子說,玩具不收好,表示你不愛惜。
既然你不愛惜,那就把玩具丟掉/沒收……
2.冷戰
因為孩子導正孩子錯誤行為,再三提醒。
但孩子還是不聽話。
例如咬/摳指甲。
已經說了數個禮拜,也請幼兒園老師注意。
處罰(一咬指甲就打手心或罰站,不能吃點心),
威脅(指甲很髒有細菌,
咬指甲會把細菌吃下去,肚子會痛等),
利誘(不咬/摳指甲3天,
媽媽就買一個玩具獎勵你)。
直到我真的受不了跟他說,
你不聽我的話一直咬指甲,
既然你不聽我的話,那就不跟你說話了。
就這樣一整個晚上。
也是孩子哭著跟我說,媽媽我不會再咬指甲了。
本來認為這樣的教育沒問題,
一直到這幾天的討論串產生懷疑。
所以,想藉由這個機會,
了解各位媽媽對於教育的彈性。
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