Re: [新聞] 親子溝通?情緒勒索? 母po女童抽噎自省影
突然有感而發一下,原文吃光光
我生完小孩以後我媽媽來看我
我本來以為她會跟我說什麼以前帶妳好辛苦啊現在妳懂了吧
(我們母女走這種很愛開玩笑的路線的)
結果她有一天突然跟我說,「人家都說父母對小孩的愛多偉大
但是其實小孩對爸媽的愛才是百分之百的
大人雖然為了小孩做牛做馬每天累得半死是真的啦
但是常常就會敷衍小孩啊,有時候你們講話我就真的沒在聽
可是小孩是百分之百全心全意注意力都在爸媽身上
所以爸媽的愛當然很偉大,但是小孩對爸媽的愛才是最純粹的」
講完突然給我跑過來抱一下,整個撒洋蔥撒不要錢的
為什麼有感而發呢,因為我覺得這種情緒勒索的媽媽就是利用小孩這種完全愛媽媽的心啊
什麼小孩自己哭說不要關粉絲團就叫做小孩自己要粉絲團
小孩就是因為愛妳,知道妳生氣了,所以她會願意說/做任何事來討妳歡心啊
小孩在還不會明辨是非黑白善惡前就對爸媽有這種純粹的愛了
爸媽說的不管是什麼她們都還是會愛你啊,爸媽怎麼能用小孩對妳愛的表現,反過來說「
她還是很愛我啊,所以我做的是對的」
這種粉專還有十萬粉絲我也是傻眼
我覺得現在很多爸媽很追求這種「看起來理性,不用打罵小孩,小孩很懂事」的教養方式
但是我看完真的覺得,這樣用冷靜的語氣情緒勒索小孩不會比對小孩大吼大叫來得好到哪
裡去啊
總之覺得這種現象再流行下去,二十年以後心理諮商師應該會供不應求吧
話又說回來,雖然我媽說小孩對爸媽的愛比較純粹,但我還是覺得媽媽比較偉大
因為我現在就好想回家當廢物女兒啊啊啊
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