Re: [寶寶] 對於親戚感態度感到疲憊
首先感謝各位的意見,辦抓週這件事,其實很早就有通
知了,甚至我還在臉書上辦活動通知,也很早大約二月
就告知感謝大家來,我們有準備住宿,以及晚餐。
因為自助餐需要買餐卷,所以要確認人數,人數的部分我也確認過兩三次。
只是我今天在家族群組告知,晚飯的場次是在晚上七點半,但表姐突然跟我說因為女兒要學鋼琴,會趕不上抓週。
但會參與晚餐跟住宿,而另外一個表哥會攜帶我們都沒有看過的女友,已及她女友跟前夫生的孩子(沒有歧視,勿戰)
女友的寶寶跟我孩子差幾個月,我先前也詢問表哥寶寶的飲食問題,也跟表哥說明,副食品我會準備,請他們放心帶孩子來玩,房間也會準備有消毒鍋,及嬰兒床的房間。但在途中我表哥三番兩次跟我更改人數,我也請他在3/15確認是否真的可以出席,因為我要購買餐券以及房間的安排。
在過程中,從來未有強迫參加,也表示如果有事,無法參加也沒關係。
表哥表姐對於我來說不是不熟的親戚,每年我們也都會家族旅遊至少兩次。
其實我覺得錢都不是重點,因為一直改來改去的行為讓我厭煩。至於如果是寶貝女兒要學琴,也會優先學琴,但學琴應該是早就確認的事,時間快到才告知無法參加,這樣只是造成困擾而已。
我重視我孩子的的第一個生日,因為對於我來說也很重要,所以我不認為我很舖張。
其實就只是要來,我很歡迎,不來請早講,不要浪費別人的心意,造成困擾。
當然我也會這樣教導孩子,這是ㄧ種禮貌。
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