Re: [寶寶] 女兒這樣是很怕我嗎?
先寫在前頭, 免得大家誤解我在酸原PO,
沒有~~
對於行為養成 & "聽話"之間的尺度拿捏, 我也沒準頭,
所以提出來討論, 集思廣益, 學習一下大家的意見
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純好奇, 順風問,
為什麼大家會喜歡養出"聽話"的小孩?
仔細想想, 身為大人, 都會有偶而正餐不想吃, 想要大吃垃圾食物的時候;
或是, 不想要整理家務, 想要擺爛的時候;
或是, 完全不想要聽老闆的話工作, 放假出去讓工作放到死的時候....
可是對於小孩, 卻希望他像機器人一樣聽話又精準?
準時乖乖吃飯 --> 準時乖乖睡覺 --> 準時乖乖起床 --> 準時乖乖上學
這樣乖乖的小孩受到父母的讚賞, 哇~ 好乖 好聽話!
這樣的小孩, 長大後要聽誰的話?
小孩心中可能有莫大的疑問:
為什麼爸爸飯後可以吃爆米花? 為什麼爸爸的媽媽準爸爸飯後可以吃爆米花?
這樣的爸爸乖嗎?
是不是我長大了就可以不要聽媽媽的話? 好想趕快長大阿...
是因為爸爸有乖乖吃飯所以飯後可以吃爆米花嗎?
甚麼叫乖乖吃飯?
為什麼吃一碗就是乖乖吃飯, 吃一口就不算呢?
為什麼我每餐的飯量都要一樣呢? ....
為什麼媽媽吃飯不用跟我一樣在那邊算幾口幾口呢?
媽媽的媽媽為什麼不控管媽媽吃飯的量呢? 這樣的媽媽乖嗎?
阿...
好像要趕快長大阿....
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