[寶寶] 婆婆化療感染與帶小孩問題消失
我婆婆目前罹患乳癌三期,HER2陽性,已經全切即將開始化療。
家裡有個四個月大的嬰兒,原本由我婆婆帶,她非常疼愛他,
當初也是為了帶小孩忽略回診,拖到乳癌三期。
我跟我婆婆原本不住在一起,兩邊交通時間單程約40-60分鐘,當初我想送自己住處附近
托嬰,晚上下班後自己帶,我住的地方離公司車程才五分鐘其實很方便,但婆婆一直爭取
說要幫忙才給她帶,小孩她照顧得無微不至,我很感激。
發現婆婆乳癌後,怕婆婆太累,我馬上將小孩送婆家附近(不是自己住處)的托嬰中心。
考量的是婆婆離不開小孩,治療期間也需要心靈寄託。因為我上班地點(也是我住處附近
)離婆家遠,上下班時間又會塞車,就由我公公去接小孩回來,我每天通勤到我婆家晚上
帶小孩睡覺洗澡。
豈知小孩送托嬰不到一週就被傳染感冒,婆婆捨不得馬上跟托嬰中心請假要自己帶。因為
小孩感冒,哭鬧不止,只好我公公抱了一整天。
婆婆說這樣公公太累了,還要我下班早點回家帶,但由於上下班塞車的緣故,早下班也是
塞在路上快不起來。且每天我這樣通勤也是累到翻掉。
這狀況我覺得不大對。
我顧慮的是,小孩在托嬰中心感冒絕對是稀鬆平常的「常態」,但之後即將開始化療的婆
婆,因為心疼小孩一定小孩ㄧ感冒感冒就留小孩在家,但這樣不會被我小孩傳染感冒嗎?
化療中被傳染的話不是很危險嗎?
即使屆時主要照顧者變成我公公,但我公公也得照顧婆婆,這樣我公公會不會也累壞?我
自己得這樣通勤,晚上帶小孩睡覺,也開始覺得有點吃不消......
但我婆婆又一直跟我說我想太多,堅持把孫子留身邊,這樣真的沒關係嗎?
若顧慮婆婆心靈寄託問題,我是該把小孩留著,但這樣的安排會不會反而妨礙到抗癌治療
?也可能讓公公與我也跟著累垮?想聽聽各位前輩們的經驗建議。謝謝你們
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