[寶寶] 耐性=母愛?
寶寶3.5M,目前婆婆和我一起顧,老公下班幫忙,寶寶已經睡過夜了,我覺得她應該滿天
使的吧......但是我的耐性常常快要沒了,快爆炸了!
我自己知道是個沒內建母愛的人,最近寶寶會笑了,或許母愛開始萌芽!?(但常常一哭
鬧又被澆熄...)從寶寶出生以來,後悔的想法不曾斷過,我的自由工作家庭等等,全部都
亂了套。
剛剛寶寶一直不肯睡,抱著哄還是眼睛睜得老大,索性放他在床上自己玩,就開始崩潰哭
,真的臉超垮,快要爆炸了,用臭臉面對她無辜的雙眼,內心很矛盾,很愧疚但又好煩!
不知道是因為沒母愛的關係,所以對哭聲不是有太大的反應,之前想訓練自行入睡給她哭
五分鐘(還覺得有點短),婆婆跟老公整個心疼得要命,於是計畫大失敗,現在就是抱著
哄睡...
相較其他人,我就是很沒耐性,不知道是不是跟沒母愛有關(T_T),常常想把她給婆婆帶
回去,甚至很想離家出走...
我一直都是一種很矛盾的心情面對寶寶,覺得自己好像愛她但也怨她的感覺…>_<…
很想知道各位媽咪有人像我一樣是個非常不稱職的媽媽嗎?內心非常愧對寶寶,既然都生
了也沒辦法回頭,有什麼辦法可以改善這個症頭嗎?真的好煩惱唉...
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