[寶寶] 早一年念書晚一年念書
是這樣的
我的寶寶預產期是九月四號預產期,是個女寶,但我因為身體因素,需要剖腹產,醫生問
我何時生,我說九月二號,理由如下:
一、希望寶寶晚一年念書,身高曲線不求比同齡好,至少跟著上同齡減少被霸凌機會
二、認為寶寶晚一年念書心智較成熟,至少對於學業或待人處事皆是如此
我也一直往這個目標努力,除了待產包一直未拉上拉鏈,沒事就躺著休息,並對她信心喊
話,希望能讓她延後生產
周圍的人對我的想法感到不可思議,認為
一、女寶年紀最大會被同年齡笑,也不容易談戀愛
二、會增加女寶念幼稚園花費(這點有點不太明白)
三、如有考試失敗等問題又重考年紀會差更多
即使媽媽不改初衷,也認真考慮我這個決定會不會影響到寶寶未來,所以希望版上媽媽能
跟我聊一下看法,說出我的盲點或鼓勵我都可以,謝謝大家
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我也有提早生的心理準備,真的變年紀最小也是她的選擇,醫生是說撐到九月二號有點難
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還有 507 則推文
還有 21 段內文
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雖然我不認為我是酸加取暖(對於你有仔細看我的回文其實有點懷疑),但很謝謝你的指教
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na大跟我的推文確實認真,讓我對於我對我孩子是否沒信心這個觀點有思考一番,樓上許
多人對於我這篇文不吝提出看法跟自身經歷真的很感謝,讓我收獲匪淺,逐步清楚應該如
何做,我會回歸尊重孩子想出來時間加慎重跟醫生討論,謝謝大家
※ 編輯: sjanwang (101.13.97.129), 08/21/2016 01:52:40
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謝謝你的理解,可能我工作正好跟這塊有關加寶寶出生日期卡到分水嶺加看過年尾孩子學
習力文章才會思考一番,出現這麼多正反論述我也始料未及,哈哈,照這樣看下來,前段
發展的孩子根本不會有問題,中段孩子問題不大,後段孩子影響比較大,不過也得考量女
孩子較早熟,預產期過於接近跟早讀如果發展不好比晚讀想要早讀容易補救等因素
※ 編輯: sjanwang (101.13.97.129), 08/21/2016 08:32:08
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