[寶寶] 媽媽還是去上班好了
平常周間公婆來幫我顧大寶(二歲二個月),周末會回家,大寶很黏婆婆,婆婆周五晚上回
去後,大寶會哭著要打電話給阿罵,每次都要安撫好久
今天問大寶說媽媽因為要上班不能照顧你,之後不去上班照顧妳好嗎?
大寶說:不喜歡媽媽照顧,媽媽還是去上班好了
我要阿罵照顧我
我當下沒說甚麼,後來就偷偷哭了
我知道不能怪孩子,畢竟阿罵帶他兩年
加上我懷二寶後體力不支加上有安胎作月子
孩子幾乎都是阿罵在顧 現在吃飯睡覺洗澡只要阿罵在都指定要阿罵 不然就大哭 我不
想勉強他
就讓婆婆來
生完二寶後也很積極跟大寶修復關係
但大寶雖然喜歡跟我玩
每次看到我都跟我說媽媽陪我玩
但問他要不要跟媽媽睡覺 都說不要
只有周末阿罵回家才讓我陪睡
周末也一直問阿罵呢?感覺是阿罵不在不得已找媽媽
另外因為公婆寵小孩 把小孩伺候得很好
我只好當黑臉 在周末要求小孩自己吃飯 收玩具一些生活常規
可能也因為這樣 小孩比較想跟阿罵在一起
心裡很難過 很羨慕看到有的假日爸爸媽媽說
跟小孩關係很好 爸媽回去都會哭
可是我家大寶對我離開都很淡定的說
媽媽拜拜
如果沒辦法請育嬰假
就只能這樣嗎?感覺我像陪玩的姐姐不是媽媽
好心酸
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