[寶寶] 請問媽媽們遇上情緒時如何自我管理
不知道大家有沒有什麼自我訓練情緒的方法,
覺得我很需要,
大的5歲多,小的1歲,
其實姐姐和弟弟都是天使,
惡魔的是媽媽我本身,
一打二無後援,
我尢在家的時候都會幫忙,
但偏偏他每天大概就兩小時會在,
周末就其中一天是完全的陪伴我們,
我本來就沒什麼耐心,
雖然很愛我的孩子,
但每天和孩子團團轉導致我覺得自己常常很暴躁,
然後首當其衝的就是孩子,
今天在忙小的時,大的拖拖拉拉不上床睡覺,
媽媽我又暴怒了,
之後看到她嚇到哭的抽抽噎噎,
我真心覺得自己實在很該死,
每次告訴自己下次絕對要冷靜,
可是就是會爆炸,
覺得自己情緒管理很有問題,
有什麼方法可以自我訓練,
再這樣下去女兒兒子愈大只會愈來愈跟我不親,
畢竟誰想要一個愛發脾氣的媽媽,
看著小孩覺得他們長大好快,
不知道他們還會黏著我多久?
不知道還能陪他們多久?
應該好好陪伴,珍惜,
可是情緒一來又控制不住,
每次過後都很內疚的對孩子抱歉,
剛剛我尢打給我,我也自己自首,
先生是脾氣耐心都很好也很疼愛小孩的人,
聽到都很捨不得小孩,
可是也不忍苛責我,
大概是覺得自己常常不在家無法幫忙我的緣故,
所以我真的很希望自己可以做的更好,
情緒到底該怎麼管理,
真心希望有人可以給我建議。。。
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