[寶寶] 是我太小氣嗎?
我是新手爸,小女剛出生四個月,
每天下班第一個衝回家幫忙,我除了不能擠奶外,舉凡洗澡、打掃、餵奶、哄睡等事情,
都超樂意做,我太太也是。我們兩個在照顧小孩上,算是相當的齊力協心
在小女剛滿兩個月時,開始會有朋友來訪道賀,我太太有個女生朋友A也來過,但我當天
工作加班不在家,所以沒見到。
我從沒見過A,只有曾在一年多前電話交談過半小時(她有事咨詢我),但談的只是公事。
時間拉回A 來我家看小孩當晚,我和太太吃飯時,她跟小孩對話時提到『A很喜歡妳,你
多了個乾媽咧』,當下我跟我太太說不要沒事在那亂認乾媽,那天也就點到為止。
昨晚,吃晚餐時,A打來,太太講完電話後對小孩說『妳乾媽要來看你了』,我當下情緒
上來,鄭重的說我連A都沒見過,為何在沒問過我情況下多了個乾媽?我無法接受!
晚上洗碗時,我仔細想了想我為何不高興,應該是出於:
1.不尊重我:我是孩子的爸,為何要沒事多個我都沒見過的人變乾媽?又為何沒先問我想法
?
2.不尊重小孩:至少等小孩長大,如果真的和A 很好,兩個都願意時再說,幹嘛現在就幫
她決定多個媽?
3.對女兒佔有欲:這不用多解釋了。
我今天一直在想這問題,想聽聽大家想法。若是你,接受自己小孩多個你不認識的乾媽/
爹嗎?
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