[產後] 大家有小孩之後會性趣缺缺嗎
想聽聽各位媽媽的想法,如果不適合po本版請版主告知會刪文,謝謝
我是媽媽,現自己全職顧兩寶,1Y10M和9M兩隻,
昨晚老公抱怨現在都很少性事,我說現在哪有心思在那,弄完兩個只想躺平休息了(躺平
也只想自己躺,不想有人湊熱鬧啊),很想知道其他媽媽也會這樣嗎?我們現在頻率約1-
2禮拜一次,老公覺得整個不平衡啊,後來我決定寫封信給老公說明一下狀況,目前內容
大意如下:
好,那來探討為什麼不想做愛,有小孩之後性慾真的降很低,雖然以前也不是需求多的人
,女生真的是心理影響生理的生物,我跟已婚有小孩的朋友討論過,所以不是我自己的說
詞,大家普遍想要做愛的頻率都下降很多,原因歸納幾點:
1.心思被小孩佔據大部分,一旦風吹草動馬上就沒feel,能去想的時間大幅減少,這昨晚
有討論,
2.助性的情趣越來越少,都被家事和例行事務佔據,記得你之前問過我怎樣才會想要嗎,
我說一個浪漫的約會balabala...,你說那也太辛苦了要搞一整天,但是真的就是這樣啊
,以前兩人世界,動不動就可以約會吃大餐,在乎對方的ㄧ舉一動,一個貼心就覺得好sw
eet,當然有時間想做愛,現在吃飯都用吞的,洗澡戰鬥澡,弄好都想直接躺平,就算想
要也只想草草了事
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大家生完小孩會有這些問題嗎?
請不吝分享了,謝謝
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