[寶寶] 生二寶後大寶的改變
看板BabyMother作者appleinori (◇apple-☆ )時間8年前 (2016/04/22 22:46)推噓20(20推 0噓 52→)留言72則, 20人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
請問大家生了二寶後,大寶會變黏或變冷淡?
最近覺得傷害到大寶了...
今年二月帶著大寶(1Y3M)回娘家待產,懷孕8個月。父母手邊還有工作,所以到生產前一
個月,從早到晚都是媽媽我挺著肚子陪玩,甚至天天帶他到公園溜滑梯。(我也有上去溜
...)
他一直很黏我又是最皮的時候,娘家親戚後來說白天要幫我照顧,讓我專心休息待產。很
不捨!但也試著讓他白天到別人家去玩...前面幾天也讓他哭慘了。晚上我都會把他摟緊
緊一起睡覺。
生產那天,早上去醫院前不忍心吵醒睡夢中的大寶我默默出門了。放他在家裡好多天,那
幾晚家人輪流陪他睡,他第一次和媽媽以外的人睡覺,他不曉得媽媽為什麼不見了。
住院的時候我好想他!沒想到才住院三晚回來和大寶的關係就變了。
後來要照顧二寶和哺乳,長輩也不希望我坐月子時抱大寶。我幾乎都待在三樓月子房,放
大寶在二樓和家人玩。偶爾我抱二寶下樓看看他,他看我的眼神有點落漠...沒多久二寶
一哭我又馬上離開到樓上安撫哄睡。幾天下來,他開始自己玩玩具了,不會再把喜歡的玩
具拿來要我陪他玩。
我媽媽要帶他去睡覺時,他也馬上伸出雙手乖乖跟過去。明明以前他只要我陪!我知道我
這幾天也忽略了少很多時間陪伴他,家人們大家都很盡心陪伴他照顧他,但和大寶間的疏
離總讓玻璃心的我好難過...在二寶還小還在哺乳的期間,真的好難專心陪伴大寶啊。
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