[寶寶] 送托嬰/保姆還是給婆婆帶?
前提:我預產期在四月底,夫妻倆住台南,都有上班,婆家在高雄。不考慮留停,所以產
假完會回去上班。
從得知懷孕時,婆婆就非常高興剛好小孩出生時他也退休,可以幫忙帶小孩...
但我很想自己帶小孩(不想錯過小孩成長),加上我需要花時間做些功課(送托嬰還是保
姆還是給親人帶較好)所以一直沒正面回覆。
婆婆急性子,在懷孕初期就想知道我們的意願。他表明我老公有時要輪班,總是要考量他
的作息,所以希望可以幫我們帶小孩。
我聽了就很不開心,
第一、小孩出生本來爸媽就會辛苦一些,遇到我老公輪夜班,晚上只有我帶小孩,白天如
果送托嬰,我老公在睡覺也不會被干擾作息呀。
第二、我覺得他出發點都是替我老公想,完全沒考慮我當媽想自己帶小孩的心情。
所以聽了很不開心。於是我也line給我婆婆我的想法,並說我不希望小孩跟我們不親,加
上剛懷孕,還在收集資訊,所以還在考慮中。
其間,我自己也還在思考,覺得小孩姑且給婆家帶一陣子再接回來,也不是不可行。所以
也沒正面跟婆婆說就是不給她帶...
但最近小孩快出生,母愛越來越強烈,想到假日父母一週只能見一次小孩,我就很煩躁。
加上我們的共同夫妻朋友最近也是把5m小孩從彰化娘家接回竹南托嬰,下班再接回來。她
說小孩還是想留在身邊自己帶。聽了更加深我想送托嬰的想法。
於是最近開始才要參觀托嬰中心,想請教大家的點是:
1.最後托嬰中心假使各條件都滿意,夫妻都有共識送去的話,該如何跟婆婆開口?
2.要馬就生完立刻送去托嬰,還是讓我婆婆帶幾個月再送會比較好?(也許他發現帶小孩
很累會放棄)
但身旁朋友又說一旦給婆婆帶,之後要帶回來更難(因為有感情)
由於第一胎沒什麼經驗,再麻煩版友提供意見~謝謝
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