[寶寶] 婆媳間顧寶寶
狀況是先生在外地工作,
我跟兩個月大的孩子在婆家住,
婆婆人很好,一直說我要多休息,
所以之前就講好白天她顧、晚上我顧
媽媽總是對孩子有佔有慾,
而且這又是我第一胎,
所以造成我快憂鬱的問題就是
1.早上婆婆會從房門底看我室內燈有開嗎,假設有開代表孩子醒了就會開門進來抱小孩去客廳
2.從早上婆婆抱到孩子後,我就再也抱不到孩子,除非我主動提想抱才會輪到我,然後給我抱也是一下就要我回房間休息
3.每到餵奶時間,婆婆就叫我去泡奶,泡完她就直接餵奶,餐餐她都要餵,除了半夜那趟餵不到之外
4.幫孩子洗澡她都要參與
5.已經有跟她溝通過不要抱睡,但白天我在房間時,她還是在客廳抱著搖孩子睡覺
我婆婆人很好,可能公公過世的早,照顧家的責任都完全變成婆婆,導致婆婆控制慾強,我不知道該怎麼跟婆婆溝通這些事,她總是對我和對外說,我要好好休息她顧就好@@
就是因為這樣客氣又出發點是好的,讓我更不知道怎麼相處…不知道怎麼表達希望她能夠尊重我和孩子的親子關係
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