[寶寶] 復職後寶寶該念幼稚園還是給大姑帶?
我的孩子即將1y9m了
原本預計照顧到明年2月底回去上班(剛好育嬰假2年)
但是跟公婆同住
實在受不了婆婆天天念我 沒事又line我念我
(婆家有開小工廠,婆婆希望我去工廠幫忙,不要天天"閒閒"在家)
(因為她女兒(我大姑)也是帶著即將3y的孩子在婆家工廠打工)
(因為我不肯去幫忙 所以婆只要心情不好就找我麻煩 才會提前復職)
我希望孩子去上幼稚園
因為公婆希望孩子給我大姑帶
但是我不愛她帶孩子的方式
他帶小孩去工廠打工,他兒子都一直看卡通 或 滑手機
我跟她說這樣會近視,他說小孩總有一天會近視的= =
(這種人....我怎放心把孩子交給他阿)
我有跟老公提出我的疑慮(孩子會一直看卡通)
大姑說他不會這樣,他會好好訓練2個孩子有正常生活習慣
(我聽她胡扯,他自己的小孩都懶得顧丟給3c保姆了,哪會好好陪我兒子)
我覺得大姑其實有私心
他只是希望我兒子去跟他兒子作伴,或許也會開口跟我婆婆要點"保母費"
我老公 完全沒主見 完全聽公婆和大姑的話
我老公 現在也反對孩子上幼稚園
他們唯一的理由-會生病 且年紀小學不到啥
但我想我兒子去工廠變電視兒童阿!!
想請問各位媽媽 我該堅持己見嗎?
(假使老公反對,我願意全額負擔學費)
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真的好煩!!
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