[寶寶] 今天幫女兒洗澡時,眼淚竟突然奪眶而出
今天寶貝洗澡很不乖~尤其在洗頭時更是很難壓制
眼看水花濺入她的耳朵...為了使她冷靜不要亂動
媽媽一時心慌竟哼了一首我從不想再唱的"一比鴨鴨"
想不到女兒瞬間冷靜下來沒再亂動..專注的看著我
突然冒出一句:阿嬤~~~
天啊~眼淚就這樣子流出來了
其實小人再小都是有記憶的,我沒想到1.5Y的她..記得阿嬤..
我邊掉眼淚邊開心興奮的叫著~妳記得阿嬤嗎?真的記得嗎?
她又再叫了一聲"阿嬤" 嗚~今晚要失眠了...
女兒0.5Y-1Y時,我決定復職上班,輪早晚班亂七八糟的,好在住婆家
附近,所以婆婆幫我照顧孩子~有時我因夜班很晚下班,她也陪著女兒睡
讓我好好的工作與休息,那段時間好在有她~要不然真的會放心不下寶貝
而她最常哄女兒的歌就是“一比鴨鴨",尤其在她幫女兒洗澡時~
每次洗澡愛歡的女兒聽到她哼著總能冷靜下來...而我也偷學了起來..
但去年年底,婆一去大醫院就診斷出末期..很快的就離開了...
雖然婆媳緣份很短暫(結婚二年多),而我也曾是那種會上網抱怨婆婆的媳婦
(有些教養的理念不合..)對於她的來日不多,我還是很傷心與錯愕
想到她的好~覺得實在是深在福中不知福啊!而我之前還拿著百歲的每日時
刻表規定她幾點餵奶幾點放睡...叫她不要小孩一哭就抱會壞了我的計畫,現
在回想起來~真的是沒必要那麼強勢...而她..總是順著我..
而產後有些憂鬱~她是第一個讓我放心把女兒託付的人!產後第一次睡飽
(睡了11小時)我感動到不行~驚訝著..天啊~我總算找到分身來幫我照顧
女兒了,才能放心去上班~而新手媽害怕幫軟軟的新生兒洗澡,她就是搶著
幫我洗,因為她看到我故作堅強..所以女兒1Y前有大半的時間是婆婆幫她
洗澡的,而我負責穿衣~婆媳兩人最常一起哼唱著"一比鴨鴨"哄著女兒,所
以我再也不哼...這會讓我想起己經離開的婆婆..
而今天不小心的哼出口~她說了一聲"阿嬤"!多希望婆婆能親耳聽到啊!
原以為小小的她不會記得~其實她都記得.....只可惜我們不夠福氣啊~
這麼棒的阿嬤與婆婆只陪了我們那麼短暫的日子...唉唉..
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