Re: [懷孕] 太愛大寶了 好怕不能同等愛二寶
※ 引述《yiro (小峱峱分身)》之銘言:
: 這是篇心情文 其實這樣的想法已經存在很久了
: 大寶是男生 從出生就很難帶
: 長大更是越來越皮 經常把全家人搞得人仰馬翻
: 外表還濃眉塌鼻 十足搞笑咖
: 可是我和老公還是愛他愛得不得了
: 直到現在也經常在兒子睡著時
: 一左一右的盯著他的睡臉 陶醉得說:好可愛喔...(傻爸媽模式)
: 其實理性上我也知道 兒子並不是真的多可愛
: 甚至我很擔心他長大歪掉怎麼辦XD
: 可是我還是覺得我愛他愛到漫出來了
: 原來我會這樣全心全意的愛一個人
: 就算他哭 搞笑 發怪音 隨便說了什麼 也覺得可愛到不行(真是病得不輕)
: 現在我懷孕30W了 引頸期盼的第二胎 剛好和哥哥差整整三歲
: 這次也是弟弟但無所謂(不過老公想要女兒)
: 反正我想至少生三個XD
: 只是真的好容易忽略他 跟第一次懷孕時完全不同..
: 第一胎都是每次產檢完 隔一天又好想去婦產科報到看看他的情況
: 現在第二胎每次產檢則是:咦 又要到XX號了啊 好像該去產檢了
: 第一胎時每次產檢都排在老公休息時 一定要老公一起去
: 現在第二胎則是 有時間有空就自己預約自己去了...
: 到現在老公只陪過兩次而已 囧
: 每次看著大兒子發花痴時 也會忍不住想:我有辦法像愛大寶一樣愛二寶嗎?
: 有時不安的問老公 老公也會遲疑一下說:我也不知道...
: 我當然很期待弟弟的出生 常會想像他可愛的小手小臉和小小的哭聲
: 但又很怕自己會不如預期的愛他 然後偏心
: 真沒想到我必須擔心這種事情 唉〒_〒
我的二寶目前2m...
我覺得我完全不愛他...
他哭的時候我覺得好煩,一點都不想安慰他...
曾經讓他自己哭一兩個小時到自己睡著...
曾經把他放在婆家一個禮拜(帶大寶去日本玩),一點也不會想他...
他喝奶太慢或喝到睡著時我還會偷捏他...
我也覺得很對不起他...可是我目前真的不愛他....
其實我覺得後悔生他,這樣對他並不公平,我可能生病了....
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