[寶寶] 有了寶寶,很難跟未婚朋友聚會
其實這是一篇心情文。我是個全職媽,有個6.5個月的女寶,我的寶寶非常怕生、黏人,
目前只讓媽媽跟外婆哄睡、餵奶,因為爸爸在寶寶5個月的時候才結束國外工作,現在還
在努力跟寶寶培養感情。
在我的朋友圈裡,我算是很早結婚生子,我的朋友大多都未婚,從事多采多姿的工作,每
次相約聚會,大家都傾向約在週間的晚上,因為假日她們要各自約會,只是這樣就讓我很
為難。
我的寶寶作息已經固定為晚上八點洗澡,九點喝最後一餐奶,接著睡到隔天早上八到九點
。
每次聚會,我都必須將孩子託給我媽,然後趕在九點離開,趕快回去接孩子回家睡覺。
曾經也帶過寶寶去聚會,但是寶寶生性敏感,除了看到我的朋友大哭,也會因為環境改變
,就不好好睡覺、喝奶,搞到最後,我的朋友都覺得很掃興,因為我必須一直安撫寶寶。
也和朋友提過,聚會時間改成假日中午,但是朋友總是認為是我太寵小孩,不該凡事都順
著孩子,讓寶寶哭幾次,她就會習慣別人的照顧,不會只黏特定的人。
說真的,我也試著狠心把寶寶丟給老公照顧,自己躲到廚房,不讓寶寶看見,但是我的寶
寶真的很倔強,完全不妥協,哭到滿臉漲紅、喘不過氣也不停止,只要我接手,她馬上就
安靜入睡。在反覆試過幾次,我只能讓步了。
雖然看到寶寶那麼愛我,儘管哭到滿臉淚水,但是一見到我就笑,真的讓我感到很窩心,
但是我自己卻逐漸發現我的生活圈正一步步縮減,先前還跟朋友從事同領域的工作的時候
,覺得每次聚會都能非常盡興,現在的我,話題插不上之外,心裡也一直在想著寶寶,想
要趕快回家。
我的朋友大概也察覺我的心情,他們現在也不太常找我出去了,當我在臉書看到他們的打
卡,心裡還是會湧現一股惆悵,可能我需要換個朋友圈了,跟一些在媽媽教室認識的媽媽
朋友們聊天,真的讓我自在很多......
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