Re: [懷孕] 剛剛大哭了一場已回收
※ 引述《mimidog (mimi)》之銘言:
: 不知道這篇文章適不適合在這裡發布
: 但我實在太難過了
: 我從去年底就開始準備要結婚 預計今年10月底結婚
: 從開始準備結婚後 其實就沒有很積極的避孕
: 結果真的在上禮拜驗到懷孕 也有去醫院照到胚囊 但還沒聽到心跳
: 雖然不是預期中的生命 但我跟男友都充滿了期待與開心 希望他可以平平安安長大
: 所以我現在要一邊準備結婚的事一邊搜尋剛懷孕要注意什麼
: 今天我把超音波照拿回家給爸媽看
: 我媽很開心 一直要我多注意營養
: 我爸卻跟我說 這件事很光榮嗎? 拿照片出來看幹嘛
: 我真的是興沖沖的拿照片給他們看 結果被澆了一桶冷水
: 還說這件事很光榮嗎?有需要拿照片出來炫耀嘛?
: 我媽還想幫他緩頰說我爸沒這個意思 我爸馬上說 他就是這個意思
: 結婚才結7.8個月小孩就生出來 很光榮嗎? 傳出去能聽嗎?
: 我馬上眼淚就飆出來了 說 我不覺得這有什麼不光榮 就把門關起來了
: 我爸其實對女兒都很好 但他今天這樣講話 真的傷到我了
: 現在一個人在房間 眼淚還是止不下來.....
真的是很好奇
版上爸媽們有多少個
能接受女兒先上車
而票待在補呢?
婚前性行為和婚前懷孕
應該分開來看
婚前守貞或者是褪流行了
但婚前弄出一個小生命
還是很讓人擔心
事無絕對
雖然就要結婚了
但若是有變數呢
再來,剛結婚一切還在適應
如果你是我女兒
我會希望小倆口
在婚姻中先磨和一段時間
再迎接孩子
很多婚姻問題
其實就是太多東西攪和一起
反而在莫明中造成傷害
我想你爸爸應該是擔心
突然你的角色變多元了
太太,媽媽,人家的媳婦兒
或者你覺得不會有問題
但走過人生路的爸爸會知道
切並不是容易的唷
去感受一下爸爸的擔心
而不是只想著自己很傷心
如果你們角色互換呢?
也許你就能理解與同理了
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