[月子] 產後憂鬱新手媽媽詢問已回收
看板BabyMother作者kikilala128 (新秘Mily(米賴))時間9年前 (2014/09/03 19:47)推噓56(56推 0噓 41→)留言97則, 56人參與討論串1/2 (看更多)
各位媽咪好,我的寶寶目前6D
正在給婆婆坐月子中……
因為傷口四度撕裂傷,前幾天非常虛弱
(目前仍然覺得很虛弱)
在醫院時老公的親戚一直不斷來看寶寶,
回婆家的前兩天也非常多親戚隨意進出我的房間看寶寶,
我開始憂鬱緊張了起來……
因為婆婆每個小時或兩三個小時就會上來看寶寶,
然後就賴著不走,說實在的我完全無法休息!
在婚前我就是很重視房間隱私的人,
但婆婆與小姑總是不敲門就進來房間,
婆婆又總是靠在寶寶旁邊很大聲講話,
我真的很反感……
寶寶好好的在睡覺時,婆婆就會把寶寶吵醒,
然後才說寶寶肚子餓在哭鬧……
老公家親戚又多,大家都沒有洗手就碰寶寶,
婆婆的指甲又留的非常長,跟她說要修,完全沒有變短,我真的很怒!
現在變成我只想自己顧寶寶,
完全不想給別人碰+抱……
好好的坐月子什麼的我完全不奢望了……
前幾天連續哭了三天,哭到無法停止,也不知道在哭什麼,
感覺可以體會生完小狗的狗媽媽,有人靠近就保持警戒……
我知道我的態度一定不太好,但我真的無法控制,
再加上我不會講台語,婆婆只會台語不會國語,所以無法溝通,
整個崩潰啊!
婆婆根本不會煮月子餐,三餐都是隨意的飯菜,
不然就是魚湯,昨天三餐都是魚湯!
我真的能不崩潰嗎?
還是是我太討厭別人進來我房間了?
我想問,如果在婆家做兩個禮拜月子,
然後回娘家做兩個禮拜這樣可以嗎?
還有白天寶寶都一直睡吵不醒,晚上卻都一直不睡,
還是說目前這樣都是一定的呢?
謝謝大家看完我的抱怨文,手機排版請見諒……
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