[寶寶] 老公不想再生的失落感已回收
這只是篇討拍文
只是想抒發也不知道標題分類適合否
從來都不覺得自己愛小孩的我
在生了貝拉小姐後
雖然說不上母愛大爆發
不過的確打開了內心那個叫做媽媽的開關
隨著貝拉邁入9M
互動越來越多,動作也越來越可愛
加上她本來就比較好帶
逐漸的開始萌生想生二寶的想法
不過因為我知道老公並不想要
所以也一直沒提出來討論
我只是天真的覺得他只是說說
今天不知道提到什麼
我終於跟老公認真的討論
我開始努力的說服他
兩個小孩可以互相依靠陪伴
以後我們老了壓力也會小點等
不過還是被打槍了
因為老公是家庭主夫
他覺得帶小孩很累了
也認為生了二寶他就不會有自己的空閒時間
我認為他這樣說很自私
但最後我的說法並沒有說服他
他只是嚴肅認真的看著我說
不管他說了再多我還是想要
可是生小孩是兩個人的事
我一昧的想把自己的觀念加諸給他
是不是太不尊重他了
話說到了這裡
我好像終於必須面對了
對啊!生孩子是兩個人的事
不管什麼理由如果他不想要
那我也不該強求啊!不管理由多麼冠冕蹚皇
看來如果沒有意外
我們就只會有貝拉一個孩子了
看著她開心的該該叫玩耍
我內心的空洞感越來越大
不能給她個手足
不能再有個寶寶
真的有種好難忽視的失落感啊!
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