[寶寶] 這樣的教育方式是不是不太好?已回收
因為大嫂正在月子中
所以大嫂的大兒子(1Y3M)是由大伯請假在家專職照顧
今天中午吃飯的時間
大伯準備餵弟弟吃飯
結果就聽到弟弟大哭吵鬧說什麼也不要吃飯的聲音
一開始大伯還很有耐心的哄弟弟
但弟弟不知道是不會餓不想吃,還是想起來玩
仍然不停的大哭
後來大伯可能是沒耐心了(或者是想他教育弟弟的方式)
大伯生氣的對弟弟說:「好,那你不要吃了,餓肚子好了。」
弟弟看到爸爸生氣,哭的更大聲更慘了
聲音傳到二樓,被正在坐月子的大嫂聽見了
大嫂馬上下樓來,抱起大哭的弟弟,
很兇的罵大伯:「就跟你說要在11點前餵,他現在想睡覺了,根本不想吃飯了!」
然後就把弟弟抱上樓了
本來在哭的弟弟一被媽媽抱著,馬上破涕為笑
全程目睹這一幕的我心中百感交集
畢竟不是自己的小孩,要怎麼教自己無法插手
但還是覺得二個人的教育方式都不妥
大伯是應該再有耐心一些,如果弟弟真的不吃了,就不要勉強他吃,
抱他下來,不要再餵任何食物給弟弟,也不用兇弟弟
時間到了,弟弟就會知道,吃飯的時候就是要吃飯,不吃就只能餓肚子等下一餐了!
大嫂的處理方式也不是很好
我覺得她不應該在孩子面前責備孩子的爸爸
尤其又是這種情況下,那是不是孩子會覺得 "疑!?我大哭有用耶!媽媽會來罵爸爸耶!"
那孩子以後遇到不如意不順心的事,就大哭
反正媽媽會衝過來抱抱
我知道大嫂疼孩子,但是不是該換個方式先安撫孩子情緒
私底下再跟老公討論一下教養的方式會比較好呢?
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