[懷孕] 懷孕了 但是好徬徨無助
上周五因為月經遲遲沒來去了趟婦產科
原本覺得絕對不可能懷孕的我 卻又意外的得到了兩條線的驚喜
連醫生都有點嚇到( 因為七月初才藥流送走了一個小寶貝,好心痛..........)
想不到小寶貝那麼快就回來我身邊了
聽到懷孕的當下心裡的喜悅絕對大過於驚訝,
但當回過神來 回到現實層面的時候,卻又滿是徬徨無助
我是未婚懷孕,雖然與男朋友感情穩定 但基於我們倆都有明年要出國念書的打算
所以男友覺得小寶貝來的不是時候(當初七月就是因為這個原因藥流的)
幾個月前拿掉孩子的痛,到現在還沒平復,現在小寶貝又回到我身邊
我真的不知道該如何是好
因為我的理念一直都沒有變 我一直認為我懷了他 他就是我的責任
要硬生生從我身邊帶走他 心真的好痛 所以這次我立場更堅決了 不想拿掉孩子
我知道男友也很愛小孩 但是他也很堅持現在不是時候 他覺得他無力照顧我們
於是我跟男友現在立場不一 僵持在那裏 不知該如何是好
雙方家長都還不知道 (我家管比較嚴 父母不支持婚前性行為)
我實在不知道該不該開口跟我媽或他媽說................
我知道這一切的問題都是我造成的....
要是當初我堅持我媽的理念 絕對不婚前性行為 就不會有今天的結果
但是事情已經因為我的一時之快而落得現在的局面
我只希望我可以把事情處理得當,不知道眾媽咪們可不可以給我一點建議
(如果要鞭我,可以鞭小力點嗎> < 不能留住身體裡的摯愛 我心真的快難過死了)
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