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22F推: 高調08/12 14:56
38F推:08/04 16:10
243F→:07/09 17:14
163F推:02/07 08:31
13F推: 願平安11/17 14:19
1F推: 也許是給自己公私領域再隔開一點08/03 18:37
2F→: 會更看清楚自己的個性與他人的個性08/03 18:37
3F→: 情況有很多啦,如果真的對異性不適應到影響工作08/03 18:39
4F→: 可能真的找醫師聊聊也好 (反正只是聊聊嘛)08/03 18:40
19F推: 我的意思是,妳的問題可能是出在適應層面而非08/03 18:51
20F→: 心理層面,譬如甚麼場合不知該怎麼融入說甚麼話08/03 18:52
21F→: 或是不知道樂觀開朗這樣的個性如何在每個場合掌握08/03 18:53
22F→: 分寸。這些就我看來就不是嚴重的心理問題,08/03 18:54
23F→: 可能多把公領域與私領域對人的方式做個隔離,用08/03 18:55
24F→: 時間沉殿一下,就會越來越掌握如何適應不同團體的08/03 18:56
25F→: 方式。應該問題就可以慢慢改善,畢竟妳不是真的恐懼08/03 18:57
26F→: 異性的人 (沒那個動機在),應該不是大問題~08/03 18:58
27F→: 我講的隔離是:妳在私領域經營模式可跟工作做些08/03 19:01
28F→: 反差 (譬如工作時妳很嚴肅 私人時間就多安排可以搞08/03 19:02
29F→: 笑的活動或場合,觀察那個反差。最終妳會知道哪一個08/03 19:03
30F→: 適合自己,再花點時間內化成溝通方式。慢慢我相信08/03 19:04
31F→: 妳就比較不怕)08/03 19:05
32F→:08/03 19:07
33F→: 我不是心理師啦,只是曾經跟妳有過相同困擾08/03 19:08
34F→: 只要是人,對某種人事物懷有恐懼基本上都是正常的08/03 19:11
35F→: 如果不要過份y把「草看成蛇」,這不算甚麼疾病喔~08/03 19:13
36F→: 這只是某種我們從遠古祖先那遺傳下來的應對環境模式08/03 19:14
37F→: 但我們在近代演化的腦部已經可以靠後天學習克服對08/03 19:14
38F→: 「草看成蛇」的誤解。08/03 19:15
39F→: 對我來說就是用多元的選擇看清楚自己跟別人的「真意08/03 19:16
40F→: 」(他沒有要傷害我,我也沒有要討厭他)08/03 19:17
41F→: 這樣的緊張在練習之下得到緩解。08/03 19:18
42F→: 而且厚 當面找個異性聊很久 (妳熟的人)08/03 19:22
43F→: 聊到把彼此都看透了的那種久,這招超有效!true!08/03 19:23
44F→: 這可以讓妳對男性這種生物評價多出很多實用情報 XD08/03 19:24
45F→: 妳就可以從腦中剃除一大部份 (只是自己想像的東西)08/03 19:25
46F→: 用實用的作法就可以克服一大半恐懼~08/03 19:26
47F→: 因為我想說可以幾行解決啊 就 ...... XDD08/03 19:30
49F→: 加油! you are not alone XD08/03 19:35
50F→: 不會啊,有必要的話我願意幫助所有人 ! (遠目)08/03 19:41
53F→: 不過我那招找熟的異性聊開真的很有效,藥到病除08/03 19:42
54F→: 還真的喔?哪一方面還覺得沒把握想問的?08/03 19:45
57F推: 推樓上 男生沒那麼可怕 XD08/03 19:51
58F→: 不一定要有目的的聊 這樣人家會覺得妳奇怪08/03 19:55
59F→: 至少要讓人知道 「妳做事的方式」,通常周圍人08/03 19:56
60F→: 會用這點判定妳可不可以聊~ 要有一定程度的展現08/03 19:57
50F推: 說不定晚上他們會開會抱怨主人對他們不好08/03 19:20
375F→:06/28 14:21
59F推:06/28 14:21