如此窘境...該怎麼化解呢?
其實相遇的一開始，我就知道他有女朋友。
但是他從沒來有主動跟我講，我也沒有問過他。
我知道有幾次他似乎要脫口而出跟我講他已經有女朋友的事情，
但是最後依然什麼話也沒講。
他現在在澳洲，是韓國人但會講一些中文，
而我在台灣，他的現任女友也在澳洲，更巧的是她也是台灣人。
而且我也有朋友在澳洲跟他唸同一所大學
（學校不大，所以認出亞洲人的速度都很快）
我一開始其實對他並沒有特別的感覺，
回台灣之後，反而比較常在msn上聊天。
直到昨天世足賽看完，他很難過，我就在線上安慰他。
後來他被我的白痴對話逗笑了，
我自己一直覺的我講話有時會沒有邏輯，但他總是說這樣很可愛。
後來他突然很認真的跟我告白，當然我是嚇了三大跳...
B說:
i know for u its strange
but that is my mind
我說:
u know..
maybe ur not really love me...i mean not "really" fall in love with me
B說:
but u know for me also strange
and i keep try to watch ur picture
and u make me smiling
我說:
do u think maybe this just a fresh feeling for u...coz im a totally new person for u..etc
B說:
nono
im not that kind of person
i know myself
我說:
yap, i do think so. u always know urself well...
B說:
becuz we keep talking and i feel u r good
and feel we r similar
Fami 說:
maybe we r similar in some parts...
B說:
i just wanna know ur feeling about me
also ur thinking
我說:
i think im in a state of chaos...
他也覺得他這樣突然講已經嚇到我了...
但是他也說他想要知道我對他的感覺，因為他已經表明他的心意了。
我跟他說我們之間有很多很難解決的問題。
他說如果是距離或者是以後會面對到的問題，一定有辦法解決，只要我們兩個能確定對方的心意。
於是我跟他講說，這些都不是問題，問題是他現在有個女朋友。
B說:
of course for u that is big deal...
for me also..
but if u show me ur mind to me
ill try my best to solve that..
of course it gonna take some time.
but now i cant lie to myself..
i cant lie to me..
actually im bad for her
but even if i dont love her anymore
if i keep meet her
that is more bad
i need to show my mind to her
i think that what i need to do
im not afraid about that
whatever i make decision
im gonna hurt someone
but i believe myself
so if u need to time to think
take a time
i respect u also
i think i show my mind to u enough
if i say i dont love her anymore
that's lie
and i know i cant
but im love u more
u can think im selfish
but i think i am...
so now its up to u
i respect ur opinion
到現在我還是很混亂...我有跟他說我也很喜歡他。
但是...
真的不知道該怎麼回應。
真的喜歡上他，但是卻覺得有深深的愧疚感（雖然我不認識他女友...）
我到現在還是沒想到要如何回應他...
應該是根本不知道要怎麼回應吧...
版上各位如果遇到這樣的窘境，要怎麼化解呢？
真的很苦惱....
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