[打屁] 有誰也是對人性的失望而單身的嗎?
每次想談戀愛,
在憧憬的幻想破滅之後,
面對的是深不見底的黑洞。
以前我不懂,
後來開始接觸心理學、社會科學,
偶然聽了台大開的線上課程:戀愛社會學,
教授講的一席話讓我心有戚戚焉...
「如果你父母感情好,那恭喜你跟你伴侶的感情好的可能有了一半,如果你父母感情不好,那你跟你伴侶感情不會好。」
看了很多雙親之間的爭執,
甚至把對伴侶的怨懟發洩在我身上...
在高中要上大學時期,
迎來他們的婚姻破裂。
對人性的善變自私無常感到心冷,
這就是我的黑洞。
黑洞其二是因為童年創傷,無法信任雙親。
原諒是用寫的很簡單,但要真正放下很難的兩個字。
但生命沒有一個標準,
也許我就這樣單身下去了,
誰的人生沒有幾個窟窿呢?
人生不必完美,
但是學會接受不完美,
這是自愛。
寫給跟我一樣曾被關係親近的人中傷
而選擇遠離的人們.....
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