跟心理師討論過很多次了,
似乎這個社會對負面情緒相當排斥,無法接納。
人都被要求堅強,很同意應該學習堅強,
但這個要求有時以犧牲掉情緒表達為代價。
在心理諮商過程中花了很多心力來傾聽、同理,鼓勵說出情緒,
但轉身回到社會又面對負面情緒無可容身的境地。
回想那些迴避我的朋友,可能他們也不知道如何接納別人的負面情緒吧,
儘管已經有不少文章提到「傾聽、陪伴、少給建議」,但多數人不知道。
我的心理師也沒有解答,他也知道我離開晤談室回到現實中時常找不到支援,
目前的方法是慢慢從新認識的人當中培養資源,
把痛苦少量分散到不同朋友,避免一次就把人消耗掉。
建立友誼和信任不容易,但破壞很簡單,一次崩潰就會喪失掉與朋友的關係。
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