今天去諮商,跟心理師分享昨天發生的事情
我覺得我有點失控,這樣好像不夠理性.....
沒想到心理師說,換做是她、她也會生氣,生氣沒什麼不好阿
反而覺得為什麼我要反省自己不夠理性.....
我:.....................
因為大家(老師、家人)都說我不理性阿
但,我自己也有意識到,很多時候我並沒有不理性
而是對方惡意貼標籤.....
心理師就說:該生氣的時候就生氣....你完全沒做錯。
說感動有點感動....但真的可以嗎?
人真的可以想生氣就生氣嗎? 這樣不會不禮貌嗎?
另外,我說昨天醫生很高大,讓我覺得很有壓迫感
沒想到心理師大笑了,她說她認識這位醫生
只覺得瘦,完全不覺得高阿
好吧... 我知道癥結了,是我的恐懼無意識間把對方「變大了」 呃
就像我以前覺得新竹市某位陳醫生很帥(第一眼),但事實上他長得很普通orz
為什麼人的視覺那麼神奇阿.................orz
心理師回應是;不要把自己看得太弱小了。
的確是...
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