[請益] 朋友媽媽疲勞轟炸,令他想死
第一次po文,有不對之處請指正,謝謝>~<
[求助]
身邊有人的家長常期精神壓迫:從「幼稚園到高中」,ㄧ回家就要把包包倒出來檢查,每天買的文具零食衣服都會用質問的問哪買的哪來,如果朋友送東西,就會要求要對方家電話,打過去對質,就連ㄧ隻筆都被罵,哭著說:「
平常都不能出門,到高中才能留晚自習,也要家長接送才行,高二後才能ㄧ學期期末考ㄧ天出去玩。
國中發現他交男女朋友,她媽哭著大吼大叫,要他下跪,要他休學,說不準在讀書了,他媽說:「妳要跪到我爽」。
從小到大每天回家都要被唸,連看書都要在旁邊唸,唸到他背不起來,然後被罵。(連去補習班她都要到補習班坐在她旁邊唸)
他表達從小到大的精神壓迫讓他根本無法呼吸,就連大學也不能填自己想讀的系,勉強畢業後,想讀他自己想讀的書,然後先打工,考去外國,但他媽每天說他廢物,連吃飯時在笑她都會說:「笑什麼笑?你未來都毀了」
每次他回想過往都覺得自己怎麼活過來的。
就連現在,閒聊時都要想很久,因為每講的一句話可能都會惹對方生氣。
每次他媽要他早睡,都會唸他唸到早上五點,沒錯,是早上五點。他媽非常需要傾訴和講話,也只對他疲勞轟炸。
他媽:「你是我小孩,就是要給我命令」。
現在他很痛苦,跟他媽坦白從小到現在他都不敢講話,他媽咆哮,然後說要送他出國,他現在很痛苦,不想出國,甚至說出:「出國我就會死掉這種話」。
但他不能說給他媽聽,因為他媽會崩潰,會開始咆哮或說她要去死。坦白的那晚他媽咆哮說我就是失敗啊,那我以後都聽你們(不只ㄧ個小孩)講,我閉嘴啊(咆哮),她還說,你就是要跟我討論你的未來,因為你每個決定都會
他直接跟他媽說要ㄧ起去看諮商,他媽咆哮著覺得丟臉,諷刺的答應。
他現在不想出國,但又不知道該怎麼辦,我希望他跟他媽表答他的感受,告訴他:「媽,我很愛妳,但我希望妳知道我也是獨立的個體,有自己想要的未來………」等等,他說他說過類似的話,他媽就是崩潰,他媽無法看到他是
他現在每天都很痛苦,常常想死……
想問,該怎麼辦………我已無計可施……
(本人同意刊出QQ)
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