[求助] 急...婆婆拿生命跟我爭育兒觀念....消失
孩子現在小學三年級,是個充滿創造力又有很多想法並且不愛被拘束的孩子
一直以來我對孩子的教育就是讓他適性發展
況且現在也才國小,我的想法就是讓他有個快樂邊玩邊學的童年就好
所以也因為這樣他現在對學科比較不感興趣,因此成績沒有名列前茅
但各方面都表現很棒,也熱愛自己的體育社團
一切看似都很好
直到今年婆婆因為公公過世後搬進家裡和我們一起住
我們就開始了各種大大小小的磨合
婆婆是那種望子成龍的傳統長輩
認為唯有讀書高,成績一定要前三名
而且控制欲超高,現在我老公的錢基本上都是婆婆在管
就在前幾天婆婆突然拿出一筆錢給我
叫我幫孩子報名家裡附近的填鴨式的學科補習班
可是殊不知我已經悄悄幫他報名了某創業家培養的非學科課程
我好好的跟婆婆說我覺得孩子目前並不需要
就算幫他報名了孩子也只會不開心而已,何必呢?
然後,婆婆就暴怒了.......
認為我忤逆他,還說出一堆什麼要把他孫子毀了之類超崩潰的話
最後還扯到我只會花他們家的錢在浪費時間的課程上
What!!!???我用我自己上班賺的錢幫孩子報名課程也不行嗎?
於是就和婆婆起了爭執
因為我不覺得她連我的錢都能管
更遑論我教育孩子的方式了
但她就一直重複跳針說孩子孫子都是她的所有物她為什麼沒權利做主?
當然我當下也是氣瘋了也不斷跟她跳針
沒想到在爭執的尾聲她竟然放話說
如果敢讓孩子去上那沒意義的課程的話
就等於沒尊重她這奶奶,她就要隨我公公去了反正活著也沒意義
雖然當下理智線斷光沒特別的感覺
但現在冷靜下來想一想其實蠻恐怖的
孩子的爸又呈現一副無所謂的樣子
一直覺得婆婆不會真的去自殺
可是我又怕婆婆會真的覺得沒人在意她就做出傻事
這星期日就是上課日了,到底該不該帶孩子去啊......?
求各位的建議,拜託了......
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