[代Po] 是否該搬回婆家?
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先說明一下我的環境狀況
娘家(也是現居)新北,婆家桃園(南桃園)
婆婆目前快60歲,身體狀況良好,有兩兒子,一個我老公,老公的弟弟住在婆家附近,
婆婆要求我們必須讓小孩念小學前(大概四年後)要我們搬回去陪她住,
對了,公公因為有外遇,沒有跟婆婆住一起,平常很少往來。所以婆婆目前一個人住。
我考量的點是這樣…:
回去住的優點 :
1.婆婆煮飯健康好吃,住家環境乾淨,以後小孩的飲食我很放心。(都是婆婆負責煮飯)
2.婆婆會開車,常常可以幫忙搭手小孩的事情。
(1,2點都是娘家比較缺乏的優點)
回去住的缺點:
1.新北的小孩教育資源應該比南桃園好,(純粹直覺,有誤歡迎指正)
2.婆婆雖然人不差,但很愛介入事實,沒有給予隱私權,
生活大小事幾乎都要過問給意見。
其實,我當然還是不想回去住,
只是老公雖然不想回去但也一直卡在"我不回去跟媽媽住,
難道以後讓她一個老人獨居在家嗎?,而且又是長子。"的點上面。
婆婆又常常釋放出一個人住感覺很害怕的訊息 …T_T
請問我該回去住嗎?
還是,有什麼辦法可以先說服我老公,再說服我婆婆呢 …?
真的跟大家求救了!(>﹏<)
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